Maybe

I have seen several versions of the following story, and can never seem to find it when I want to. So, here is a piece from Michael Frost's book 'Jesus the Fool.' He uses the old Chinese Taoist story about a farmer in a poor country village to illustrate the concept of reframing (from this blog post).

This applies to so many situations. Maybe all of them!

"He was considered very well-to-do, because he owned a horse which he used for plowing and for transportation. One day his horse ran away. All his neighbors exclaimed how terrible this was, but the farmer simply said, 'Maybe.'

A few days later the horse returned and brought two wild horses with it. The neighbors all rejoiced at his good fortune, but the farmer just said, 'Maybe.'

The next day the farmer's son tried to ride one of the wild horses; the horse threw him and broke his leg. The neighbors all offered their sympathy for his misfortune, but the farmer again said, 'Maybe.'

The next week conscription officers came to the village to take young men for the army. They rejected the farmer's son because of his broken leg. When the neighbors told him how lucky he was, the farmer replied, 'Maybe.'

See how the meaning of any event can be altered given a different frame? Having two wild horses is a good thing until it is seen in the context of a broken leg. The broken leg seems bad in the context of peaceful village life, but it suddenly becomes good in the context of conscription and war.

We use reframing every time we tell a joke..."