Thursday, November 19, 2020

Dad has passed

My dad finally passed away yesterday afternoon. He had been in the hospital with covid for right at one week. From everything I've heard it was peaceful enough, and I am relieved the struggle is over not only for him, but for my mom too. I can't imagine how difficult this last year has been trying to deal with the quarantine and not being able to be together.

I am still working. I was working when I found out, actually. I'm kind of glad, because it helped keep me busy. I will head that way tonight. My part so far has been trying to put together an obituary. I worked on that this morning, and it was good for me. It allowed me to think back through the years and realize what a great person my dad actually was. Sure, he might not have been what I wanted for a father. I always felt he was better at being everyone's principal than he was at being my dad, but maybe it's just because I'm too hard to please.

Anyway, I am glad it's finally over. I suppose the next few days will be a bit challenging at times, but it will be good to see everyone. I just hope we can maintain some semblance of sanity and social distancing - especially given the cause of his death. I don't want my mom to end up in the same boat.

So, I'm feeling okay. He lived a full and purposeful life, touched a lot of people, and did a lot of good. Good for him.

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Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil;
For You are with me;
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
You anoint my head with oil;
My cup runs over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life;
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord

Forever.

 

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